At 52, I put down my $120 lash serum and tried my mother's castor oil. Here's what six weeks did.

Her way got me drips, stinging eyes and oil on the pillow. Then a friend reached into her purse at dinner, and two minutes before bed changed what I see in the mirror.

By Joanna Whitlock, Contributing Writer
Updated November 2026 · 8 min read

My niece's wedding photos came through on a Tuesday night. Four hundred of them. I was on the couch with my reading glasses on, looking for a nice one of my sister.

I found one of me instead.

I'm laughing at something the best man said, and I look happy. But my eyes had gone small. There was nothing around them, just a pink rim where my lashes used to be, and I'd put on two coats of mascara that morning.

I zoomed in, which I don't recommend.

I was the girl with the lashes. My aunt used to say they were wasted on a child.

Then, somewhere in my forties, they started to leave. One on my cheek in the morning, a few on the pillow. I used to make wishes on the ones I found. I stopped when there got to be too many.

My brows went next, from the tails in. After what I did to them in the '90s, they had no spares.

Six weeks after I finally got this right, I walked through a grocery store without a stitch of mascara on and didn't notice. But first I made every expensive mistake there is.

I spent $240 on a serum that quit when I did

So I did what you do.

I bought falsies for my nephew's graduation. If you've never tried gluing a strip of lashes to your eyelid when you need reading glasses to see your eyelid, I can't explain it to you.

Then the serum. A woman at a department store counter, with lashes out to here, sold me a tube for $120. I went back for a second. By then my lids were pink and itchy every morning, and I kept going anyway, because I'd spent $240.

It helped some. Then the water heater went, I skipped a tube, and a couple of months later I was back in that wedding photo.

That's how I ended up at 11 o'clock one night, typing "how long do lashes take to grow back" into my phone.

The answer, everywhere I looked, was weeks. Lashes are slow, and whatever you do for them has to happen every night. And under that, women my age were writing about castor oil.

I laughed out loud, because I knew that bottle.

My mother's remedy lasted me nine nights

My mother kept castor oil behind the cold cream. Every night she sat on the edge of the tub with it and a Q-tip. She was 81 when the girl who did her hair asked if those lashes were real.

So of course I was tempted. A bottle costs about what a sandwich costs, and there's one thing in it. I bought one on the way home from work.

Night one, I used an old mascara wand. Castor oil is as thick as honey, and it went down my wrist. Some got in my eye, and I spent the rest of the evening looking at the world through a buttered window.

Night two, the Q-tip. It drank up most of the oil and left fluff in my lashes.

Night four, I woke up with oil on the good pillowcase.

By night nine I skipped it. Then I skipped it again. The bottle went back in the cabinet, where it left a sticky ring I still can't get off the shelf.

My mother's oil was fine. The hard part was getting it onto my lashes, at eleven at night, with my glasses off.

Then my friend reached into her purse

I told all this at dinner to my friend Renee, who's done lashes and brows for more than 20 years. She laughed until she put her fork down.

"A Q-tip," she said. Then she went into her purse and put something on the table.

It was a small amber bottle with a pink stone ball at the top, like an old perfume roller, but heavier than it looked.

"Castor oil, like your mother's," she said. "Organic, and that's the only thing in it. The women I see with good lashes at 60 aren't buying anything clever. They do one boring thing every night, and they don't quit."

I tried it in the restaurant bathroom with my eyes shut. One roll along my top lashes. No drip and no fluff, just a thin line of oil right where it was supposed to go.

I asked what it was called.

It's called Bloom.

Bloom is 100% organic castor oil and nothing else, rolled on from a ball of real rose quartz. Most of the rollers you'll find online have a plastic ball. This one is stone, and you can feel it the second you pick it up. It's heavy, so it rolls instead of skipping across your skin. It's so smooth it doesn't tug, and it leaves a thin layer instead of a puddle.

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I keep mine in the fridge, which was Renee's tip. It sounds fussy until you feel a cold stone along your lash line at the end of a long day. I started looking forward to it, and that's why it worked. I have never once looked forward to a Q-tip.

Why this worked when the bottle didn't

Renee explained it on the way to the car. Lashes are slow. Whatever you put on them has to get there every night for weeks, and most of us quit long before that. The bottle made me quit. It took a wand, a steady hand and clean pillowcases, and I had none of those at eleven o'clock.

So the roller's whole job is to make sure you don't skip. No wand, no glasses, no mess, and a cold stone you actually look forward to.

Then she made me go read the back of the bottle in my cabinet. Not every cheap castor oil is what you'd assume. Some are blended with other oils, and some are pulled from the bean with solvents like hexane. This one is 100% organic, cold-pressed, hexane-free, and it says so on the label. It's the one ingredient you're putting on your eyelids every night, so I decided I wanted to know what it was.

Yes, it costs more than the bottle in my cabinet. That bottle left a ring on my shelf and did nothing else, because after night nine it never came out of the cabinet.

The part I didn't expect was the massage

I bought it for my lashes. I keep using it because of how it feels.

A heavy, cold stone rolling slowly over your face is a little facial you can do in your pajamas. It doesn't tug at the thin skin around your eyes the way fingers and wands do. It glides, and the oil goes on thin and even behind it.

In the morning I roll it under my eyes, straight from the fridge, and I look less puffy in about a minute. At night I go up my neck from the collarbone to the jaw, then along the jawline to my ear, about five times a side. My jaw looks lifted right away, and firmer over the weeks. Next time someone snaps a photo from the side, you'll be glad.

I ordered mine from the car, before I'd started the engine.

Two minutes, then bed

It takes about two minutes, right after I brush my teeth. Start with a clean face and your contacts out.

1. Close your eyes and roll once along your top lashes. Once is plenty.
2. Go over each brow, and spend a little longer on the thin spots and the tails.
3. If you've got another minute, roll up your neck and along your jaw, slowly, about five times a side.
4. Put it back in the fridge and go to bed.

If your eyes are puffy in the morning, roll it under them while it's cold. Your concealer goes on smoother too.

And take a photo the first night. You see your own face every day, so you won't notice it happening.

What six weeks looked like

1. TonightA cold little roll along your lashes, over your brows and up your jaw. Your jaw looks lifted the moment you finish, and it feels so nice you'll want to do it again tomorrow.
2. Week 2You reach for it without thinking now. Your lashes and brows feel softer. This is about when I gave up on the bottle, so keep going.
3. Weeks 4–6Your lashes look longer and fuller, even before the mascara comes out. Your brows fill in and look thicker. Now go find that first photo.

Week five, for me, was a Saturday morning at the grocery store. My brows had been filling in from the tails, and I'd already stopped using the pencil on the left one. Then I caught myself in the freezer door and saw my own lashes.

I got all the way to the checkout before I realized I hadn't put on any mascara.

Two weeks later I was in the chair at my hair appointment, glasses off, no makeup. The girl leaned in with the scissors and stopped.

"Did you get a lash lift?"

I thought about my mother at 81, and I laughed so hard I had to tell her the whole thing.

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How it stacks up against what I'd been buying

What other women say

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How I'd start if I were you

You buy Bloom direct, from its own page. One thing I wish someone had told me: one roller lasts about a month, and lashes take 4–6 weeks, so a single runs out just as it's getting good. I'd start with three.

And here's the sum that still gets me. Five rollers cost $119.97. That's what I paid for one tube of serum, and it lasts about five months.

And everyone takes photos over the holidays. Lashes take 4–6 weeks, plus the time it takes to reach you. I'd do that math tonight.

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Questions I had

My sister got a nice photo of the two of us last month. I didn't zoom in. Okay, I did. It was fine.